Continuity gives us roots; change gives us branches, letting us stretch and grow and reach new heights.
– Pauline R. Kezer
I had a pretty rough phone call the other day. Actually, every work day has been a bit rocky. This past January, the business unit I have worked in for the past two and a half years was acquired. In other words, I was sold. Fortunately, I still have a job and I can continue to work from my home office in the Lowcountry. All good.
I hate to admit it, but I am learning from my husband. Mac has been teaching me for a very long time, subliminally, sometimes in matters of fact, and lately in ways that are completely by his example. This should not come as any surprise to me. Mac is a clinical therapist. He reads incessantly. He has studied theories of human behavior and teaches people methods to identify flaws or character defects, gently prompts them to consider the benefits of changing, and provides a variety of tools to enable a person to begin and then sustain a better manner of living.
When I left New York to return home from my last business trip in 2010, snow began to fall. It was not a winter storm like so many of the weather systems that have pummeled the Midwest and shaken the South to its core with bitter cold temperatures. It was soft and quiet. Big, fluffy flakes drifted down to Earth, lit up by the headlights of the small Delta Embraer aircraft destined for Savannah. I will be in Detroit over the holidays, and chances are good that I will see snow. But it is always the magic of the first snowflakes of the season that reawakens my sense of wonder for the white water crystals, knowing that no two are exactly alike.
On October 22, Alex Anderson Jr. died. He was the creator of Rocky and Bullwinkle, cartoon characters from the 1960’s. I first read about Mr. Anderson’s passing in USA Today while having breakfast at a Hampton Inn in New Jersey, and it cast a bit of a sad shadow on my bowl of Honey Nut Cheerios and me. I grew up with the flying squirrel and Canadian moose, their buddies, and the villains who tried to bring them down.
I love cartoons and The Adventures of Rocky and Bullwinkle and Friends was not like the Warner Bros.
By now, most of us are in the thick of it. Christmas parties, Jingle Bells, cookie cutouts, the Nutcracker, twinkling lights, deadline shopping and wrapping paper. Hanukkah is almost over, Kwanzaa is eight candle lights somewhere into the future, and we are entrenched in this millennium's second decade.
For me, December will be a blitzkrieg of finalizing projects at work, distributor meetings to review 2010 sales, price negotiations, and goal setting for 2011. Days in December will fly by faster than a gull catching a winter breeze over the Woods bridge, and before you know it, Walgreen's will have heart-shaped boxes lining the shelves in their seasonal aisle.
I spent Labor Day weekend healing – physically, spiritually and emotionally.
For the last twenty-four years, the holiday weekend has been cause for a vacation for my husband and me to celebrate our wedding anniversary. Although we have ventured all over this country and British Columbia to celebrate each other, our last two September adventures have been to cabins in the Georgia mountains. This destination makes it easier to drop my mom off at my brother’s and pick her up on our way back home to Beaufort. Another plus is that the log cabins are pet-friendly, so Toby the Beagle gets to be a part of our rendezvous.